A rose has thorns, and yet it is beautiful. The thorns help to protect the rose so that it might grow and blossom. I don’t hear anyone say- throw away the rose because it has ugly thorns. It is simply accepted that both are part of the whole, and in its…
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Fear is real when experienced, and the bodily sensations that accompany fear leave us stuck in debilitating responses and self-sabotaging attitudes towards life. Our body will send messages either through a contraction felt in the pit of our stomach or a sense of trembling. We might also physically shake, get sweaty or…
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Our Upset and Misery It can seem ridiculous to be told that happiness is an inside job when all we want to do is rip someone’s head off or even claw someone’s eyes out! When we are sad or angry, happiness is the last thing on our mind, and to be…
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OBSERVATIONS OF AN EGO BY Kindi Gill I have to make money I am afraid of the unknown My security is in money dummy, Since if I trust “I” will be gone! The voice of the ego Is relentless in its desire to rule This voice knows where not…
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I am reflecting on some of my most hidden and private thoughts, particularly those that surfaced when I was little, especially in the company of adults who were in authority. I remember the reverence that I had for school teachers, but also the associated fear of wanting to please and meet…
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1. NEED: Ask yourself how attractive a need is? When someone wants something from you, how willing are you to give? Is it not more fulfilling to give when someone is not asking or demanding anything from you? Does it not feel more exciting and inviting to offer when someone is least…
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Happy Children: 3 Keys to Great Communication. 1.Vulnerability to Love Wholeheartedly: The Heart It is really difficult as parents to acknowledge our vulnerable moments in a safe way. We are the authority and our vulnerability can be frightening for our children to fully understand. If we worry too much about their…
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Judgment by Kindi Gill 4 October 2015 She is bossy She is strong He is controlling He is argumentative She is insecure She is dumb He is miserly He is a user She is a people pleaser She is resentful He is jealous He is unsupportive She is needy She is…
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The 7 gifts behind Fears There are seven main benefits or gifts hidden behind fears. These gifts surface spontaneously. The only effort that needs to be made, is to transform the fear. The rest happens by itself as a natural consequence and reward for our effort. I personally feel embarking on…
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“Anger…like a fire can burn up everything in sight. In the ashes are born many possibilities! We can stay stuck, or take responsibility to discover our triggers and transcend these tendencies” -Kindi Gill Anger – Is it Good or is it Bad? When I was younger I was frightened of anger…
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